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Thursday, 31 May 2012

Open Diary: Random Conversation

Zateesha and I had a girls night out, we had dinner and saw 'The Dictator', such a stupidly funny film. During dinner we were just discussing relationships and the opposite sex, and the conversation diverted to  knowing what you want and going for it.

I am very indecisive, she pointed out the obvious, I need options to consider, I cannot just make up my mind I want this without looking at alternatives. Its like when it comes to shades of lipstick especially; I will be in the isle for a good half an hour looking at similar shades to the one I want in different brands before deciding to just get one more of what I own incase I don't like the one I already chose. 

My relationship with shoes is base on the first attraction. With shoes, I am very spontaneous, when I am attracted to it, I have to have it. Like the new edition to my relationship from River Island
Or this  Monroe open peep toe block heel sandals
I got these in an off cream colour but I love them so much that as soon as my mother departs the country I will purchase these ones. (she has sort of restricted my spending, and since she provides the funds, we do not want to upset her)

Sorry, I drifted off there, but as I was saying, attraction is on first sight basis, I cannot learn to appreciate a pair of shoes, I have to appreciate if from the beginning, regardless of whether other people think they are nice or not. (I hope you understand where I am drifting to) 

This first-sight attraction is relevant when it comes to the opposite sex as well, regardless of how gorgeous a guy might be, if its not instant its not gonna happened. Speaking of handsome, some people are blessed. 
You know when someone is just average and then you see them like after two years and you are like where have you been all my life? 
That happened during my exams, this guy had not been to law school for God knows how long and there he sat next to me in the exams hall, given me occasional glances, thankfully I prayed and rebuked that evil, or else, I would have wrote an essay about how handsome he was.

I know this is the most all over the place post ever, but so that there is an epitome of this post, My view is that attraction happens at first sight, If it is not there from the beginning, they will not grow on you. Its frankly the opposite with personality, because you cannot fully know a person until after you have had some kind of relationship, platonic or romantic with them. And personality does grow on a person.

Agree or Disagree?
Anonymous arguments are welcome :) 
p.s Outfit post soon come. 
x

28 comments:

  1. The second pair of sandals are amazing, so beautiful.

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  2. LMAO @ ----> I prayed and rebuked that evil,anyway guess u right afterall,Attraction comes 1st. :)

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  3. LMAO -------> I prayed and rebuked that evil. you right dear,attraction comes first. :) which brings some questions to mind,not asking `em here. :P

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    1. lol i shall be waiting for them x

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  4. Love the first pair! Very pretty. Thanks for visiting my blog..hope you have a great week :)

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  5. I have the same relationship with shoes! I am flirting with them too much!

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  6. Love those 'all over the place' posts! Now, to the point...I think that first attraction is important but it's just the first stage. After that initial attraction you have to invest a lot of time in getting to know that person. First attraction can be sweet, fun, powerful...but it can also become a tramp and lead you to wrong paths. For that reason, I think we have to be open to get to know people we haven't been attracted to in the first place...xoxo

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    1. that is very insightful x

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    2. Ohh! :) Glad u like it! Hope u keep making us 'think' with such deep posts. Thanks for that! Following u right back! Let's keep in touch! XOXO

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    3. xox lets definitely do x

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  7. I love these shoes. I want all of them.

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  8. omg I love the first heel so much. Totally chic yet delicate xoxo
    would you like to follow each other?
    A
    xx
    http://epiquemoi.blogspot.com

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  9. Hi :) thank you for your comment and visit on my blog. And I like the most the second :) great colour:) and you have nice blog, so I follow you :) Kiss:*

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  10. really loving the 2nd pair

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  11. I love the first pair, so glamourous!
    I'm not too much of a spontaneous shopper, I only take something if I really like it or if it really looks good, or at least OK on me. :D
    I'm following you now. :D If you want, you can find me on: http://the-wandering-heart.blogspot.com
    Have a nice day! Kisses! :*

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    1. thanks love, following you too x

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  12. Thanks for your comment! I'm following you now. Hope you liked my blog and follow back :)

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  13. Agree! Love the pink shoes. xx

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  14. Love the first pair! I agree attraction happens at first sight.
    And sorry I don't have any nails tips as mine aren't that strong but I personally find the break less if I have nail polish on
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  15. Gorgeous! Thanks for the comment, we can follow each other? =) xx

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  16. those are goregous- I am a big fan of peep toe shoes because my 2nd toe is longer than my first :D

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  17. Great shoes!

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    Kisses from Italy

    Giuseppe

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  18. those first pair of shoes are hot and they're from River Island. black and cream ankle strap sandals with gold metal detail http://www.riverisland.com/Online/women/shoes--boots/heels/black-metal-detail-sandals-612616

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